Many couples I have dealt with in counseling fall in the “aggressive wife and passive husband” category. Through this article, we’ll examine and suggest ways for couples who fall into this category to get along using biblical principles. Aggressive vs. Passive Personalities Aggressive people are usually “in your face”, they follow you around when there… [Continue Reading]
What happens when your wife makes more money? The above question is one that I get asked very often as I travel especially when people realize my wife’s profession (family physician). I have alluded to my belief on the above issue several times in other articles; however, I think I need to deal with it… [Continue Reading]
Every couple I know disagrees about something, if it’s not what type of car to buy, then it is getting ready for church on a Sunday morning, or getting their four year old out of daddy and mummy’s bed. Resolving these differences does not constitute a bad marriage. 1 Corinthians 7: 28b is a verse I… [Continue Reading]
Many of us have heard the adage time heals all wounds and have perhaps used it ourselves in conversations. As I meet with couples I have also noticed that many folks run away from discussing their problem thinking or assuming that with time the issue will go away. Case Study One Esau and Jacob were… [Continue Reading]
One of the things I do with my boys that I would cherish as long as I live is taking them to Bible study fellowship every Monday (bsfinternational.org). In one of the past years, we studied the book of Genesis and for a couple of weeks the study was focused on Abraham, Sarah and Hagar…. [Continue Reading]
The word sex invoke different meaning and passion in many people, many church folk actually think the word is a curse word and the act itself is sinful, St. Augustine one of the early Greek converts and great writer in the early church actually wrote that sex without procreation is sinful. On the other hand the secular worldview of this age (generation) suggests that sex is strictly for recreation and your imagination is the limit when it comes to what you can do with sex.
Common questions on finding a life partner. Is meeting someone online a good idea?
Last week I posted an article 5 Things that will Reinforce Your Marriage, and here are 5 more things to add to that list. 1. FORGIVE each other I have often heard older couples say to younger couples that they don’t fight in-fact Ola and I had a couple tell us that once. When I hear… [Continue Reading]
The goal for every married couple should be to enjoy a blissful purposeful relationship of heaven on earth. The following is a list of things that will help preserving the presence of God in any relationship, as well as keeping the flow of God’s love in your marriage.
Advice for Relationships Those of us in ministry (full or part time) or those that have been married for many years and have a great marriage often run the risk of taking each other for granted, and often put the other person’s need behind everything else including working for God or other egoistic events outside… [Continue Reading]